One of them I speak to often, and think of often too. One I speak to as many days as not, and think of once or twice a day. One I don't speak to as often, and don't think of as often either, but I still care for her.
It is the third one who's having the most trouble right now, and I'm learning that I can worry just as much for her as for the others.
Rae-chan, please feel better soon.